Black onyx, Kiwi jasper.
Black Onyx is said to be the push needed for a fresh start. It can help release negative emotions such as sorrow and grief. It is widely used to end unhappy or bothersome relationships...if you're looking for an extra 'push' to move past something holding you back, the black onyx is meant for you. Your spirit needs to be renewed and then prepared for the next step. The stuck relationship, the unending 'phase' or perhaps your own mentality is holding you back....release and renew.